This is rather self-serving and hypocritical.
"Help me,
I'm selfish"
So, you accept your faults, acknowledge that you won't do others favours, yet ask complete strangers to help you?!
Hmmmm...
Whilst I hate 'sound bites' in arguments, I'm reminded of the phrase
"What goes around, comes around."
If you treat people badly, or act selfishly, you should expect the same from others.
It is incumbent upon
you to take the first step, not make bleat helplessly for assistance whilst not changing the fundamental faults in your attitude.
Start being a nice guy and people will treat you nicely.
Mr Mephisto
PS - I'm not being nasty, but rather posting an alternative opinion to foster debate...