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Double D, I've been reading this thread since you started it. I haven't commented becuase I really don't have any specific advice or experiences to offer. I was hoping you'd follow through and kick him out as it seems you don't have any other options.
It is his choice and I hope for the both of you he starts making better ones. I imagine it'll get worse before better, but I sincerely believe you've done the right thing. Don't beat yourself up when it does get worse because you've done the right thing. Don't beat yourself up about the past because you've done the right thing. Spend that energy on his brother. Sounds like your husband has been supportive take a second to tell him you appreciate that if you do.
As an early thirties single male I feel like there isn't much I say. I can only imagine how you feel. I just wanted to say I think you've done the right thing and wish you the best.
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