I wouldn't give too much analysis to this phenomenon. Fact is, a lot of people are dumb. The majority, probably. And when you're dumb and see asshole behavior, you misinterpret it as confidence, when it's actually the exact fucking opposite. Confrontation and derision is overwhelmingly a sign of insecurity and general frustration.
It's not about nice guys not keeping the girl. It's not about the asshole that does. It's all about the smart girl that recognizes genuine confidence and intelligence, and sees though cheap brashness.
Oh, and nice guys are usually too passive for their own good.
Last edited by Johnny Rotten; 04-23-2003 at 08:44 PM..
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