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Originally posted by Pandabear
And then there are those where the attraction is lost to the person that you are with and you try so hard to make it work out. But there is someone else that seems they would better fit the need. I have so many friends that go through this...it's crazy. More people go through it than what actually should be.
Just wondering.
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If the attraction is lost, try talking to him about it. In fact, ask him if *he* has ever considered having an affair.
Yes, you are taking a big risk, but, if you don't do something, the situation will get worse and you might lose the marriage.
Even if you break up, it's better to talk about it and fight it out than to let it deteriorate and get nasty.