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I've been in a similar situation with my Hubby prior to me coming out of my shell sexually. One thing that would have maybe bothered me about this is I may have felt like you were hiding this from me. In order for you to take the pics without her knowing about it already you would have had to plan to take them when she wasn't around. I would have felt betrayed somewhat.
I would say your best move would be to apologize for hiding it from her and for not making sure she'd be Ok with it. I mean she probably considers you "Her's" now and to share pics of you with someone else would be partly her decision too. She may not say she views it that way but deep down she may feel that way. It's not selfish for her to think that way. She just values you and felt hurt that you didn't check with her.
Sit down and talk to her. Let her know that you are still hers and this was just something you didn't stop to think about. Apologize and don't try to play down what you did - it would just sound like you were minimizing her feelings.
Now as to whether it was wrong or not? I would not say it was being unfaithful or anything so big a deal as that. It was just an error in judgement and a mistake to not inform your wife. Not wrong in my opinion.
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