Wow, actually agree with the Meph...someone else, I think it may have been Halx said "It's cheating if you don't want your SO to know." Since you didn't tell her, one must assume you didn't want to tell her. This is pretty big, and to not discuss it with her first shows a serious flaw in your marriage: lack of communication.
-my 2 cents, probably only worth that much, but so be it.
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