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Originally posted by Dobby The House
I'm a 30 year old virgin and have had somewhere between 2-3 chances to " get some" but i decided that most woman don't deserve me :-)
so i'm waitng for one who i can connect with in all aspects.
charming a girl is an easy thing to do but it doesn't mean she wants YOU just the charming version of yourself.
unless u just want sex theres no point in forcing it.
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here is the rubb though, when you finally meet that special someone, you might not deserve her. people develop, grow and mature through experience. Im not judging you are trying to degrade your decision, but you absolutely would be more sexually skilled, competant, and mentally developed if you had been having sex this past decade. I would never marry a virgin, and i would never marry a girl who sucked in bed. I don't think these two things are at all unreasonable. The person who is otherwise exactly what you are looking for might be the same way. Not experiencing all life has to offer, so long as everyone is a better person for it, is always a good thing in my opinion. The flipside is that failed relationships/bad sexual encounters etc, do leave scars sometimes, but to me its clearly worth it.
i understand and respect your posistion, i just wanted to offer an alternate viewpoint.