I wouldn't rush it man, 19 isn't at ALL old, and it's not abnormal to have not found the right girl at the right moment... yet. You mentioned you're tired of 'worrying' about it. What's to worry about? Personally i've never been one to worry about the infamous "peer pressure" but that's just me. You don't mention whether or not you date at all. I get the impression you do not, otherwise this would be more a question of how to get your date into bed (to be so blunt) rather than having problems conncting to women. I would work on the connecting to women as a priority. Just losing your virginity isn't going to change that at all, not to mention, it's not like you're on a time limit. There was another post about dating and asking women out. There is a theme, and it was confidence. Ask girls out, lunch, drinks, whatever. If it goes somewhere, great. If not, oh well, move on. Hmm, and one more thing, if you have problems connecting to girls, you might mention this to one of your female friends. She might have some insight if there IS something intrinsically wrong with you... which i doubt.
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