cronopio: because when people don't understand something, they try to make it black and white. grey is scary. grey means you can be in there somewhere. you don't want to be something you fear. "gay is bad" is so much safer than "gay is not something I am interested in, but Johnny Depp is kinda handsome". Plus... what'll the guys think, if they know Depp's cute? It's a lesson in mob mentality, almost.
me, i'm labelless. i have juan, all my crushes up to him have been female. :shrug: make of that what you will, I'll just be over here being happy.
