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Originally posted by dtheriault
Some people in fact a lot of people aren't funny and many of them don't realize it. Some people hear laughter after what they say and don't realize that people are laughing at them.
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Well, if the guy has
friends (which he does), he's not likely to be a complete dork...
Of course not everyone is funny, but some guys act too serious or heavy. That's what I meant. Don't try putting on an
act, but don't be afraid to joke around, have fun etc.
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This can also be a problem. Sometimes being yourself isn't so great.
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This has got to be the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.
That's so very self-pitious... and not exactly conducive to increasing one's self confidence now, is it?
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When you talk to women remember.
1. I pick out something specific about her to complement forget the eyes try a piece of jewlry, the way she does her hair and how it complements her neck or something about her clothing. She'll notice that you pay attention to her and are not just trying to score.
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Be careful here, or you'll come across as a complete sleaze-bag...
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2. Ask her questions and then ask follow up questions. don't just ramble about anything.
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ditto
The long and short of it is that there
ARE no rules or techniques to pick-up women. Why do you think there are so many terrible "self-help" books out there on just this subject?
They all basically say the same thing (apart from the REALLY creepy ones).
Try to make her laugh
Act interested, but not obsessive.
DON'T act desperate.
A little "hard to get" is even highly recommended!
Act and dress nicely.
Have fun and don't think about it all the time.
You'll get there mate.
Trust me.
Mr Mephisto