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Originally posted by awanderingsoul
But has anyone actually tried it? I was just worried how this might change our relationship. I'm afraid that he might think that I might think that he mya have homosexual tendencies or something if I act serious about going through with it. Sometimes I do finger his anus while I'm giving him head, and he seems to like it, so maybe I will progressively get more ambitious.
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Hi There,
I'm into a bit of B&D action and have tried this with a few different partners over the years. In my experience he'll either get right off on it and become a bit of anal slut and want it all the time, or he'll think it's fun occassionally but not really be that into it. I haven't encountered any men who thought they might be gay because they found out they enjoyed a bit of anal action. I also haven't encountered any men who didn't ennjoy a bit of a prostate tickle.
Anyone seen Road Trip where Stifler (I don't know the actor's name or his characters name in Road Trip - doh!) received a bit of up the bum action from a hot nurse. I doubt many guys saw that and thought he was gay, they probably saw that and though 'Mmmmm, hot nurse, fingers up bum, I'd like to try that'.
Who knows how guys minds work though, it all comes down to individual tastes. Try the strap-on, see if it works for both of you - you might love that feeling of having him bent over in front of you doing him the way he does you or you miht hate it. You both may decide that fingers are the way to go and not need to go that extra mile.
As long as you're both comfortable and having fun with it, it shouldn't get to intense. If it feels a bit silly just whack him on the bum and say something like "I'm gonna ride you now cowboy!", something to make a giggle and relax the situation.
Needless to say, you can never have enough lube. Water based is crap for anal so go with either a silicon based lube or, stalwart of anal fetishists everywhere, some crisco!
Good luck, hope it's fun if you decide to go there.
Cheers,
Julie