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Originally posted by Mr Mephisto
Well, for starters, you shouldn't manipulate them into liking you at all!
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I completely agree... but i have some problems with some of the advice you gave him. The rest of the advice i completely agree with.
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Some tried and tested tips...
1) Be funny
Ask any girl. This is the most attractive & sexy trait any guy can have.
2) Be fun
Again, don't be nervous around girls. A fun guy is a.... fun guy (if you know what I mean)
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Some people in fact a lot of people aren't funny and many of them don't realize it. Some people hear laughter after what they say and don't realize that people are laughing at them. So maybe he's not funny. That's okay we can still work with it.
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5) Be yourself
The more natural you act, the more likely you'll be all of the above.
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This can also be a problem. Sometimes being yourself isn't so great.
I think you definately need to relax a little. I also wouldn't rule out seeing a counselor/psych maybe even someone at your school to talk about this. They'll get a much better idea of who you are then we will and might be able to help you out.
When you talk to women remember.
1. I pick out something specific about her to complement forget the eyes try a piece of jewlry, the way she does her hair and how it complements her neck or something about her clothing. She'll notice that you pay attention to her and are not just trying to score.
2. Ask her questions and then ask follow up questions. don't just ramble about anything.
3. Make the first date something easy like lunch or dinner. Make it short and don't try to pack too much in. Then ask her for her number at the end of the night.
4. if she wants to go out on a second date you're half way there.
good luck and don't pay.