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sagester · 08-04-2003, 01:04 PM

I’m going to be 19 in a month and something about being a 19 yo virgin just irks me.

I consider myself a fairly good looking guy (pics) , I dress well, I have goals, I have a good sense of humor, and I don’t get particularly nervous when talking to girls. However, I do have problems connecting with women, I just never seem to develop an interesting conversation with most girls.

I’m sure I can get women but, there must be something fundamental that I’m missing or doing wrong. And frankly, I’m just tired, of worrying about it. Part of me thinks it would be nice to just get the whole virginity issue out of the way. That said, I don’t even know if sex is that big a deal, I think I just wana see what all the fuss is about… ::shrug:::

Anyway, my friends and I are going to Canada in a couple of weeks, so it’s gonna be a week of booze and debauchery… So I figure, why not just pay for it? Perhaps it will get some of my insecurities out of the way? I mean by this point in their lives most people have had more experience than me, and it’s gotten to the point where i feel nervous because I wont know what to do if the moment comes…

meh.

08-04-2003, 01:04 PM	#1 (permalink)
sagester Upright	Seriously considering paying for it… I’m going to be 19 in a month and something about being a 19 yo virgin just irks me. I consider myself a fairly good looking guy (pics) , I dress well, I have goals, I have a good sense of humor, and I don’t get particularly nervous when talking to girls. However, I do have problems connecting with women, I just never seem to develop an interesting conversation with most girls. I’m sure I can get women but, there must be something fundamental that I’m missing or doing wrong. And frankly, I’m just tired, of worrying about it. Part of me thinks it would be nice to just get the whole virginity issue out of the way. That said, I don’t even know if sex is that big a deal, I think I just wana see what all the fuss is about… ::shrug::: Anyway, my friends and I are going to Canada in a couple of weeks, so it’s gonna be a week of booze and debauchery… So I figure, why not just pay for it? Perhaps it will get some of my insecurities out of the way? I mean by this point in their lives most people have had more experience than me, and it’s gotten to the point where i feel nervous because I wont know what to do if the moment comes… meh.