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DD: I feel for you very deeply. Now, imagine a classroom filled with children just like your son. That's the children I teach. The unteachable. Most everyone seems in agreement with the "kick him out" resolve... however, I know that it's really tough for you to kick him out. You love him regardless of how shitty he can be. But this is where the tough love has to come in. Change the locks on the doors (incase he's made copies of the keys). Be prepared for the worst...
My father's girlfriend kicked her son out when he was about the same age as your son. He staged a break-in and robbery. Since he knew where his mother kept all the good jewelry and other stuff, that's all that was stolen. She knew it was him. All I'm saying is "be prepared for the worst".
Sometimes these things have to be done. If there is ever a time you want to discuss other options, PM me and we can brainstorm something... It's part of my job.
I wish you all the best in this and every dealing with him.
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