OK *I'm* 20 years old. I still live with my parents. Granted, I am held to standards and I adhere to them. Any chores I fail to do, I pay through the wallet. I pay for my food, my car, my insurance, my school, my entertainment, and everything else. The only thing I rely on my parents for is this roof over my head. The moment I sense I am putting any more strain on my parents than that, I rush to make things right again. I am an independant person as should any healthy 20 year old be. Parents should have an obligation to hold a roof over their children's heads at that age, but very little else. If your son is not holding his end of the bargain up, you have every justification to drop yours.
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