Double D,
I am going to echo some of the advice that you have already seen here. But I want to make a second part to the suggestion that will be hard to reconcile with the first. However, I think it is critical.
First, get him out as soon as possible. Do it as unemotionally as you can. The rules were laid out, the consequences were laid out, he didn't follow the rules, the consequences MUST follow.
Second, don't close the door on maintaining contact with him. DO NOT let him expect to move back in, but DO let him know that he can visit you. And, that you would like to visit him. The need for him to move out has nothing to do with your love for him or the need for you to maintain contact.
At this point, he is legally an adult. It is time for him to take responsibility for his actions as an adult.
I suspect that you knew all of this before you posted this thread.
I understand the pain that this is causing you. I am more the willing to listen and help if I can.
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