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I think I get what you mean. 2 years ago I would have considered myself completely straight. After a couple sexual adventures with women and finding that I enjoyed it I called myself "Bi-curious". BUT I didn't really consider myself Bi-sexual until I found myself watching women "checking" them out and seeking out women to pick up. I still prefer men but I also seek out women. Once I got to that point, I truely considered myself Bi. I mean you can try something and ENJOY it but if you aren't very interested in making it happen again it was just an experiment, an adventure. Once you desire that sort of thing to happen repeatedly and make an effort (however slight) to make it happen that you are really into it.
FOr example - I could paint a picture and it turn out very well. YET if I don't continue painting pictures that turn out well I wouldn't consider myself and Artist by name - The the artist of ONE picture. Does that make sense?
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