i've know a few mom's deal with similiar scenarios. not to sound like an asshole or pessimis, but they never change. well, almost never.
kick him out, dd. you have other kid(s?) there. they don't need to be around that kind of people. i cannot come close to imagining how much it would hurt to suggest, or better tell him right out, that he must leave. now; or when he gets back.....
there is a time for everything. that is beyond anything short of jail. bad thing is, in jail he'd probably be safer.
the thing that has me worried is. . . . are you safe?
peace be unto you...
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