rogue49

For others: looks go beyond thought
For me: looks only go so far

I might be attracted to a person, but if they are a pain, forget about it.
I don't care if you're the hottest thing around, if you're a bitch, I won't care about you,
but I find I'm the exception more than the rule.

Personallity is foremost in my mind.
I've dated older women (later 40's/early 50's)
I've dated heavier women
I've dated wallflowers
I've dated handicapped ladies.
Even started liking women on the net before I even saw them.

Looks are fleeting, mind is long-term.

What matters to me is the good time I have with them,
and the attention they pay me.

Which is not to say I haven't been with "good-looking" ladies.
Sure, even beauty queen & models, but if it doesn't "click", it doesn't work for me.
The "click" is it for me, and that translates into mind & desire for me.

Life's too short to spend time with someone who you don't enjoy being with.