It's all in the mood...music or talking.
"I want to posess you" sex
music:
NIN
Ministry (the industrial stuff)
Lords of Acid
Scooter
Ambiant (of the faster variety)
Drum N Base (of any kind)
120 BPM (if you are really ravenous)
Talk:
"Oh fuck me!"
"Yeah baby, right there"
"Take me!"
"You fucking animal!"
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Romantic, sensous sex
music:
Kitaro
Andreas Vollenweider
Ambaint (of the softer variety)
Depeche Mode
Jazz on the radio
Talk:
"You are my queen"
"You are beautiful"
"Your skin tastes so good"
"Let me gaze into your eyes as waves of orgasm splash over us" (corny but works wonders if timed correct)
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Anytime sex:
Music:
Easy listening on the radio
Coldplay
U2 (Joshua Tree is superb)
Tangerine Dream
Enya
So many others, too many to list
Talk:
"I love you"
"What can I do to make you moan?"
"Come for me."
"God you feel so good, I love what our bodies do together." (again, corny, but timing is everything)
Talk and music can make or break the moment, usually the music can set the mood, and talk can elevate the mood if apllied properly. Sometimes it is absolutely ok to be completely silent, sometimes moans, grunts and groans are in order. Test the waters lightly and go forward with a smile on your face.....
These are just a sampling of Daddymem's bag of tricks....I can't give away all my secrets
