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Originally posted by warrrreagl
Well, here's my age showing again. I've never heard of a straight guy being called a "slut."
We used to call straight guys who fit all the above definitions "jocks."
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I was a jock in high school, but i didn't lose my virginity till i was 20. I definitely didn't fall into your definition of "jock". In fact, I think a lot of jocks felt pressure to admit they were getting it on, but in reality, weren't getting it nearly as much as they bragged and boasted. The need to feel adult and mature runs high at that age as men try to find an identity and acceptance from their peers. I still know guys that will fabricate or overly exaggerate a story to gain acceptance.
A slut is someone who will sleep with anyone, has low self-esteem, uses sex as a weapon and an excuse for his/her inadequacies, and has little regard for their personal, mental, and physical health.
There is a difference between a slut, and someone who enjoys sex, has many partners over time, uses protection, and is responsible with their relationships.