It's like treating a friend to lunch or something. When I invite someone out for lunch or dinner, I don't expect whoever I'm inviting to pay (unless it's a group thing). So on a first date, it would depend on who makes the first move, and whether that person is comfortable about the changing sex roles. I would expect the guy to pay since it's usually the guy who makes the first move, but I'm always prepared to go 50/50 if I feel that we're not past the friendship stage. There is a difference between hanging out with a friend and going on a date, and it feels too much like I'm going out on a date if I let the guy pay.
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