angela146

Gentlemen, please tell me if any of the following would work:

Tease him. Be subtle. Start doing some things that will drive him nuts but don't tell him about it and don't make it a quid-pro-quo. (Do this stuff even if it doesn't work and even if he doesn't come on to you).

1. Wear a small amount of *good* perfume on your wrists and neck.
2. Show of whatever your best feature(s) is/are are around the house, i.e. wear button down blouses with plunging bras if you have nice breasts. Show some thigh if you got'em.
3. Touch him briefly every once in a while in a non-sexual way. Brush your hand along the side of his neck under his ear or lightly run a finger along the length of the back of his hand.
4. Masturbate where he can see or hear you, maybe right next to him in bed, maybe on the couch in the next room. Make noise and enjoy it. (OK, maybe that one isn't so subtle).
5. Be clean and ready for sex at all times. Wear sexy underwear so that he knows it's there even if he can't see it.
6. Hug him and tell him you love him (while wearing that good perfume).

Also, try initiating it in the morning. Get up before he does, shower, put on something sexy and get back in bed with him. Some men are hornier in the morning.

Or... try initiating it while he is asleep. Be careful, and slow so that he doesn't wake up at first. You want him to wake up only after he is horny and ready to go.

If, after a month or two, none of that works, get aggressive. Try kneeling in front of him, unzipping him and giving him head. Get undressed in front of him. When you're in bed, climb on top of him.

Remember: you're married. You don't have to be respectable when you're alone in your own home.