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This is one of those issues that as a married couple you need to discuss. But you may have to wait for a good time.
Do not start the conversation when you want to have sex. Start it when he doesn't feel the pressure to have sex right now.
Maybe give him some warning with a comment. Something like " I would like to talk about our sex lives when you have some time in the next week or so. No pressure."
Then when you have the conversation. Tell him that you would like to have sex more often. So what can you do to make him want to have sex more often.
The end result is you may have to take up masturbation to fill in the dry spells. Some people are just on a different cycle.
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