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If you 18-20 then its not a good time to have a baby. Chances are your going to be lacking in social activities and feel as if your being forced into being a dad (which you are...)
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Selfish or not, that is true.
Children are a product of the enviornment they exist in. A single parent household lacking a father figure is not good for a child, im sorry, i mean sure it can be done, but that doesnt make it a good fucking idea!
I would seriously go with the abortion if your less than 25 years old, because you do not have a stable income, household or life before that. And im sorry, but i would rather see a kid aborted than being raised by parents that dont care, and living in a house that isnt fit for them.
For those of you that say "step up to the plate, if you could fuck her, you should be able to handle the kid" blah blah. seriously, I'm so sick of hearing that; IT TAKES TWO FUCKING PEOPLE TO HAVE SEX. He didnt force her to do it. Its her body, she opened her legs, maybe she shoulda got on the pill.
Seriously, don't bring an unwanted child into the world, wait for the time to be right.
And now, you will all tear into me, because you cant look beyond "awww its a cute baby, abortion is wrong!" Seriously, think about the long term, and nature vrs nurture, and how much the parents, and external forces affect the kid.