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dod123 · 07-29-2003, 10:49 AM

pay close attention to what greg700 said. The key point here is to

SUPPORT HER FULLY .

Yes, this is about you, but even more, it's about her, and above even that, it's about the TWO of you TOGETHER.

It's a bit too late to rain judgement, or go into an abortion debate. No, i don't think anyone here can tell you the best decision, but give their opinions and their experiences. I have heard many mothers have regreted abortions or giving up children for adoption, even if it may be the best choice. For her, i suggest encouraging her to go to a planned parenthood or other group session for mothers to be. This is definitely an emotional time for all, and your support is key. The mere fact that you ask here says something, and you are one step up from the guy who denies his own child. However, now IS the time to step up to the plate. Marriage may not be the option right now, but your unconditional support is a requirement. Read over Greg's post again, he really knows what he's talking about, i just want to reinforce it.

07-29-2003, 10:49 AM	#23 (permalink)
dod123 Upright Location: US	pay close attention to what greg700 said. The key point here is to SUPPORT HER FULLY . Yes, this is about you, but even more, it's about her, and above even that, it's about the TWO of you TOGETHER. It's a bit too late to rain judgement, or go into an abortion debate. No, i don't think anyone here can tell you the best decision, but give their opinions and their experiences. I have heard many mothers have regreted abortions or giving up children for adoption, even if it may be the best choice. For her, i suggest encouraging her to go to a planned parenthood or other group session for mothers to be. This is definitely an emotional time for all, and your support is key. The mere fact that you ask here says something, and you are one step up from the guy who denies his own child. However, now IS the time to step up to the plate. Marriage may not be the option right now, but your unconditional support is a requirement. Read over Greg's post again, he really knows what he's talking about, i just want to reinforce it. __________________ "I may be newb, but at least i'm not stupid O.o"