amen.. forced abstence sounds more of a relatioship issue. If indeed it is forced. If you mean she wont let you get in her pants.. that is not forced. it's her choice. deal with it however you see fit. Waiting until the other person is ready is a matter of respect of one's wishes.. if you cant deal with that you really shouldn't be in a relationsip with them, possibly you shouldn't be in a relationship at all. It takes a certain level of maturity to recognize and honor people's personal wishes and put their own impulses aside.
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