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Forgive me for being a bit rude, but who do you think you are deciding who Nicole should and should not be going out with just because you don't like who she chooses? She's an adult and entitled to make her own decisions. If her boyfriend is annoying you/your girlfriend, then don't hang out with them. She'll either get the hint or not. You can feel free to voice your opinion ("I don't think he treats you very well, and I'm concerned about you being taken advantage of") but otherwise back the fuck off and let her make her own mistakes. And if your girlfriend is unhappy let her grow a backbone and say something about it to Nicole. If the situation doesn't change and is unliveable, she can move out (or ask Nicole to do so). Since you pay the rent, you can say who lives there and who doesn't, or ask Bob to start paying rent. YOu can control who you hang out with and who lives where, but beyond that I think you're outta line. Basically, let everybody take responsibility for their own actions and feelings, and you quit trying to run the show.
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