Thanks for the advice Shades. You're right about independence being important regardless of the living situation (not including home of course). I agree I'm getting ahead of myself thinking about a girlfriend. I suppose I need to start liking myself, then make friends, and let things go from there. I'm not looking for a soul mate anytime soon but I still feel way behind the curve socially. I know if I can't change in an ideal social environment like college then the "real world" is going to be pretty rough.
I have seen the list of clubs and there are quite a few. None of them jumped out at me. Honestly, I'm not even sure what I like anymore. My hobbies and interests just seem lukewarm. I suppose this could be from lack of a social element with them. I know you're probably thinking " Is this guy certain of anything?" Maybe it's time to try something new?
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