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Old 07-29-2003, 12:07 AM   #24 (permalink)
rodgerd
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Location: Wellington, New Zealand
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Originally posted by K.Conscience

I used to feel the same way as rodgerd, but unfortunately people don't see it this way when they're in a relationship. The girlfriend isn't going to see this relationship as just another friend, she's going to see competition. Walter is going to be doubted, seen as unfaithful, etc. etc. To maintain a healthy relationship, DISCLOSE EVERYTHING
I'm certainly not going to disagree with the idea that people should be open and honest in their relationships - I'm only considering whether the behaviour could be considered unfaithful in and of itself.

If it looks to his partner like he's "hiding" a female friend all he'll do is create and feed (quite possibly unwarranted) suspicions.

Conversely, if one's partner is going to declare all female friendships "off-limits" my advice would be to ditch the partner - that kind of jealousy isn't worth living with.
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