I dated a guy with this problem....He could stay hard for a long time but as soon as he put on a condom he went soft...he was rather big too come to think of it. I think it was more of a mental thing. We could have sex all night with no condom. A lot of times he wouldn't cum no matter what I did. I felt really bad about it. After a while I encouraged him to masturbate for me to get him self off. I did a lot of fun things to keep him turned on while he did it...it was fun!
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