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Maybe she feels that she is not doing it right. I was that way with my ex. I recieved more than i gave. I was self concious about the way I gave a bj. I was always scared I didn't do it right, after a while of me not giving him a bj, he finally just came out and asked "how come you don't give me head that much?" So I told him about my insecurities on my performance and he said don't worry about it. So then the more that I done it the better I became of it until I could do it that drives him insane.
As already replied, you need to communicate with her. My guy and myself had been together for over a year before he finally asked what was wrong, so i knew not to take it in the wrong way when he asked. Just don't be a smart ass about it, and listen to her reasoning and it should all work out
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