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Originally posted by bryan888
Was it wrong not telling her? Did I unconsciously know my relationship with her wouldn't last due to her insecurities, so why stir her shitpot of jealousy?
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Nope, but you were probably wrong for staying with her. If you can't be completely honest with somebody about yourself and what you feel about them, then you're staying with them because a) it's too much of a hassle to break up, which is cowardly, and I know because I've done it and when I did it I was being a coward, or b) to get laid, which is just kind of sad.
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If you masturbate without telling your partner you did, are you lieing, or just exercising your right to a little personal privacy?
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It is absolutely not the same thing. If you have someone else in your life that you feel strongly enough about to keep them a total secret, then you are in a bad spot. I'm talking male, female, whatever. It doesn't matter if your relationship with the third party has a chance of going sexual or not, you're obviously not comfortable being yourself around your partner. And to state the obvious, that's bad.