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Originally posted by oddball193
hey, my gf may be pregnant. what should i do? i think an abortion is best, but what if she doesnt want that? how do i deal with her parents?
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welcome to the wonderful world of unexpected pregnancy. i'm hoping you're not posting this after finding her poppin fresh after five months... you both need to get past whatever differences you have and get your asses down to a planned parenthood clinic as soon as possible. you have options. yes, aborting the foetus is an option, but there are others... adoption may be a thought if you both (or even one of you) is morally opposed to aborting.
and now the question i have to ask. are you sure it's yours? we got started on a weird angle, you are stating that she's your ex. why is she ex and not still your current? this is an akward situation, but if you both keep a level head about it, you'll get through it alright.
about the parents, if she's at least 18, they don't ever need to know unless she decides to keep it. if she's not over 18, you better get your ass over there right fucking now and explain yourself and your intentions to them, even if your plans are to go forth with an abortion. got it?
update us with the rest of the info and your plans. don't put this off. it's not gonna wait for you.