macmanmike6100

A friend of mine, let's call him Walter, came to me with something that kind of threw me aback. He's come to me with girl problems before, many a-time, so it isn't like I haven't been through the standard "What should I do?" situation.

<i>He has a girlfriend</i>, with whom he's quite well-established as far as I know. For a few months now, <i>he's been spending some quality time with another girl, although nothing physical</i> (I'm told). Walter said that he's had her over for dinner and a movie, they go out to places like museums, and spend a lot of time talking honestly, having a few laughs.

Now, Walter says he's cool with this but he asked me if it constitutes cheating, since <i>he doesn't tell his girlfriend about this other girl</i>. Sheesh. Well I outright said it's pretty borderline and he should walk away but that I've never heard of non-sexual liasons like that. In any case, I want to know if I'm being a tight-ass or if I'm being reasonable.

So, <i>are non-sexual secret liasons cool or not?</i>