Kurant

Who cares if any birth control was used, it makes no difference now. Seriously, parental relationships make no difference to any choice you make. You did it, it's your job to claim responsibility for it. Parental opnions should make no difference in what you decide.

I agree with one line in this entire thread.

"Come up with a solution together".

If it be to abort this baby, or have it and put it up for adoption, it's what in the best interest of the mother and the child. That's the first priorities you should have. While I don't condone abortion, you will never find me degrading and telling you to consider other options. What you two decide together I'm sure will be in the best intrest at heart. Don't allow peoples opinions and personal feelings in the way of what is right for you, and her. All you can do it take the responsibility for it and make her feelings the first priority. Just be a man, and be there for whatever she needs.


My wife and I were selfish, and we made the worst decision of our entire lives last year. I've been through it, and now we have begun the healing process and putting our marrige and lives back together. We made the choice and took the easy way out, but let me tell you, it hasen't been easy.

There is no wrong and right choice. There is the choice you will make together that best suits the two of you, and that's the "correct" choice. Don't let anyone persuede you otherwise.