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Marius1 · 07-25-2003, 08:10 AM

Simo

People find it easy to judge till something happens to them.
Then it isn't so easy to judge.

It happened and there is no changing that so now you have to stop and think:

What do I value more my freindship or this girl.

You can't have both.

If its true love and you choose the girl then the best of luck to you but its going to be rough. All your freinds will be taking side, considering you a threat to their relationshiups and generally won't trust you much any more (unless they have been through same)

If it was just sex then i'd make a heartfelt appology to your friend and warn him what she is like. He may never forgive you but thats his right and his right to know. Hopefully your friendship will be strong enough if your sorrow for the mistake is sincere enough. Unlikely though.

Either way its time to face the consquences. Don't think you can just bury what happened. These things have a habit of coming out. She'll tell him in anger during an argument or something.

07-25-2003, 08:10 AM	#33 (permalink)
Marius1 Loser Location: Wales	Simo People find it easy to judge till something happens to them. Then it isn't so easy to judge. It happened and there is no changing that so now you have to stop and think: What do I value more my freindship or this girl. You can't have both. If its true love and you choose the girl then the best of luck to you but its going to be rough. All your freinds will be taking side, considering you a threat to their relationshiups and generally won't trust you much any more (unless they have been through same) If it was just sex then i'd make a heartfelt appology to your friend and warn him what she is like. He may never forgive you but thats his right and his right to know. Hopefully your friendship will be strong enough if your sorrow for the mistake is sincere enough. Unlikely though. Either way its time to face the consquences. Don't think you can just bury what happened. These things have a habit of coming out. She'll tell him in anger during an argument or something. Last edited by Marius1; 07-25-2003 at 08:12 AM..