well, that was very informative nikki, thank you for sharing your techniques with us and all!
for any of you who are trying to figure out how to send it to your gfs/wives without offending them, you ought to send it to her with a note attached saying that you love the way she does it but thought this would be a new and exciting way to spice things up between the two of you and mebbe she'd be interested in trying it. *shrug*
as for me, i don't do it exactly like what has been described. for one, sucking on the balls too hard is a no-no. be very gentle because that's what keeps our human race going! i've always told JS that i will never hurt his genitals in any way because i like them too much!!!!
using a hand or two on the shaft is good, i usually have to have a hand supporting me. i do the usual teasing, but not too much, because i like the act as long as i don't get too physically tired from it.
JS seems to really like it when i lick up and down the shaft, which is also fun for me and gets the cock wet enough to really get going. i had read somewhere about touching the perineum, but JS doesn't seem to have much response to that, mebbe i'm not pressing hard enough. any tips/comments on that? anywho, i have one hand at the base of his cock and then rotate my mouth up and down and kinda twisting it from side to side at the same time. i use my tongue to play with it while i'm doing all that, and i lightly massage the balls or suck on them at some point, lick them, etc. the outter skin you can play with but the stuff inside is the sensitive part. i make sure the tip hits the back of my throat because that feels really good for him.
i like watching his facial expressions because it makes me feel really satisfied to know i can make him go through the roof.
and yes, being into it and attitude have so much to do with it. if you don't like it, i recommend finding a way that will make you like doing it. think of it this way: you are pleasing your man and there's nothing better than to see his exhausted look afterwards. cum really doesn't taste all that bad and when JS eats like only veggies and fruits for awhile it actually tastes sweet. i don't really know how to solve the gag reflex (which i never seemed to have until giving blow jobs) or how to get enough air. i too use my hand when my mouth gets tired. but just make sure it's really wet when you use your hand. don't focus on the head too much but at least focus on it some. mebbe suck it lightly or tickle it with your tongue.
remember ladies, no teeth! this act deals with some of the most sensitive areas on the human body, so remember to be gentle! love his member like you would love a child, because if you ever wanna have children, some man's organs will eventually be involved.
hope this helps a little. trying to think of what else JS likes. sometimes right after he cums you can stroke it a lil or suck it a lil and get a bit of an extra orgasm from him. but be very careful because sometimes it has a negative effect. heh. ok, i'm through. sorry to put such a long post. enjoy.
and thanks nikki for all the helpful informative posts you put up for us.