repressed and civil...
(..most often, at least. and if you must...of course do it with the highest degree of tact, intelligence, and assertiveness as possible

)
but i hear ya, lurkette...i kno how it feels, i really do.
gah.

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Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach