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Old 07-23-2003, 10:59 AM   #14 (permalink)
Donkeypuncher
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Location: Pasadena, CA
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Originally posted by hellasnow
i've tried talkn' my wife into it and we've never thought about that part.
Yeah - if she's never been with another woman before, there's the whole awkwardness of the "new" activity to begin with, plus whatever awkwardness always exists for most any of us with any new partner, plus, she's probably going to stress out over trying to make sure you get pleased... bah. If we're inviting another woman into our bed, I don't have any problems with them being alone once in a while either and it makes the whole 3-some thing far more relaxed.

Additionally, it doesn't hurt if you all like to hang out together. Not necessarily an existing friend - it can be someone new - but spend time together, out of bed, doing things. It makes everyone more comfortable when the clothes are off.
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