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I'm not a good-looking guy but I've managed to get 2 semi-serious relationships going in the past year or so. What you gotta do is approach a girl while she's in line, waiting for an elevator, waiting for the bus, etc, and start a conversation. An excellent conversation starter is "How's it going?" or "How you doing?". They've pretty much gotta answer, and very frequently will respond with "Good, you?" or something like that, and you can take it from there. Avoid risky topics, and go for common interests/problems, such as a college course, final exams, etc. Most women love to talk about themselves, so let them...don't talk about yourself that much. If you can make the conversation last for a few minutes, then use my patented female-phone-number-getting line: "I don't really have the time to talk right now, but I'd really like to get to know you a little better...can I get your number?" If they give you it, be like "Great, thanks. Talk to you later." By leaving early, you don't exhaust all conversation topics, and minimize your chances of saying something stupid or freezing up. If they say they're dating someone or some shit, be like "Who says I was asking you out?" and smile.
Also cut down on the weed, do it only every other weekend or something. You'll feel much better.
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