I just finished posting a #tfp Chat Guide here --
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=18231
Check out #tfp if you haven't before. You can usually find me there. Regardless of the hour, there's usually someone in there to talk to.
R1X,
No buddy list/ICQ group yet, but I should get on that since I can't do the website (at the moment). I'll see if I can do that soon.