kissing would generally be "too far"
agreed with the above - anything you wouldn't freely tell your partner about, knowing it would bother them... is cheating. It's a great rule of thumb because it encompasses whatever unique agreements you may have with each other. If you don't think you could easily tell them, don't do it.
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