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Rockzilla said a slut is someone who uses sex as a substitute for self-esteem.
What about this? Say a man and a woman are both virgins when the marry and are monogamous throughout 30 years of marriage. The wife is about to finish law school and is interviewing for a position at a prestigous law firm. The night before the interview, her husband wants to bolster her self-esteem. He prepares and feeds her favorite meal to her. He then gives her a very sensuous bath lit only by 2 dozen candles. He follows this by giving her a deep, intimate massage. He takes her to the bed they've shared for all those years and is sexually generous for 3 hours.
This, of course, does wonders for her self-esteem. Though she's in her 50's, she feels young and dynamic due to the sex she had. Does this make her a slut?
Perhaps monogamy and faitfhful concern for your lover are important. I cannot imagine ever calling anyone a slut though.
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