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I think "too nice" generally means "too passive", "too predictable", "too spineless", or "too apathetic". You need to remember that it's your responsibility to make her time with you interesting and surprising enough that she'll want more of it... she needs to see that you're smart and creative enough to come up with a fun date, that you value her enough to make the effort, and that you're not afraid to show that you're really attracted to her. Being "nice" doesn't entitle you to win a girl's heart any more than it entitles you to win a game of football, get a good job, or succeed in any of life's other competitions. It may help, but it's rarely enough on its own.
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