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I can only give you my perspective on this issue.
Without question, I love looking and admiring the beauty that is the naked women or a man. I can also appreciate when someone has done a good job of adding elements whether scenery or sexual toys into the fray. In the beginning it was the pure WOW factor and couldn't get enough. As I have matured I have become more discriminating as to what I enjoy. I think in my lifetime I have maybe seem 5 porno movies, and the ones I saw stunk. I never used porn as an escape mechanism or tried to find a women that was like someone in the porn pictures. I learned that there are many ways to express sexual tensions, desires and fantasies threw porn.
With all that said, let me tell you that I worship the women I am with (GALAXYGIRL), I treat her like gold or make every effort to do so and we lead a normal and sometimes very complicated life.
One grand and life changing thing happened through all of this, I began to look outside the box and educate myself in an area completely contradictory toward my personal and taught feelings of understanding, true respect, harm, commitment within relationship and more importantly needs within a relationship between consenting adults.
I completely released my previous thoughts and started at square one, and after some soul searching, I was ready and willing to embrace this change.
I was more than fortunate, but truly and grateful so, blessed with the gift to me that is "GALAXYGIRL"
We love each other completely, trust each other completely, share everything emotionally unconditionally, work toward a better future, help those less fortunate than us, we love to look at porn together. This women is a tower of wisdom, strength, patience, understanding, giving, love, a parent and a submissive.
That last word/term by its meaning/nature involves forms of restrain, and physical discipline whether for good deeds or errors.
I would of never have found the love of my life, soul and and spirit, had it not been for porn and its many varied elements.
As long as it doesn't consume you and take over your life, or make you unable to deal with the real world, I believe porn has many benefits to offer, if one looks outside the box and not just the obvious stuff.
I don't and will never say its OK, when actual exploitation takes place. The seeder side and harmful elements of porn. As with many things in life, there are good and healthy element and bad ones.
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LEATHER, LATEX and LACE "SSC"
"Nothing That Gives Pleasure is Bad"
Quality is for those who know
what they want and are at peace with what they have.
"S/M is about emotion; the erotic tension between my impulse toward something and my resistance against it."-- Virginia Barker
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