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Mael · 07-21-2003, 04:10 PM

i've never really been dumped, i've always succeeded in pre-emptive dumping. but i often seem to be a bit of an immature asshole about how it comes to be.

sophomore year of college, start dating this girl. go out a couple times, hook up a couple more times then we go out, and finally, i convince her to give me head. for her, this was a biggie. normally, she'd only go down on someone she really really really likes and was in a good relationship with, and would rather fuck before suck. well, anyways, 2 days before spring break, she goes down on me during a study break (we planned the hookup) and then i walked her home, went to dinner with friends, stayed up all night studying. didn't sleep at all. next day, run into her on the way to a test, say hi, quick kiss, take test, don't sleep that night either finishing a big paper and studying for another test. take test, go home, crash. i wake up at like 7pm when my dad comes to pick me up to go home for the week, she's already left for spring break and had left 2 messages on the machine, one not very nice. i broke up with her when we got back. i told her it was me, not her. i just wasn't really ready for a relationship (read: i still was in love with one of my best friends that nothing ever happened with and she was a bit of a plumper, and i thought i could do better attractive wise although she was cool as hell).

so anyways, she hates me. we run into each other 6 months later, and within a couple weeks are hooking up again. christmas break comes along, and i don't go to her sisters party because i want to go to one that a girl i have a crush on is going to be at. we don't speak again for a long time. just fizzled. mutual i guess. had a great time at that party though.

so we meet up again at some point, and are hanging out as friends (i said she was a cool girl. no joke). so one night, december 23rd to be exact, i come over to watch scary movie. we start fooling around and she's like, lets fuck. now, how could i turn her down? she's cute, great breasts, and could stand to maybe lose 10 pounds (which was the whole first time reason, errr... along with the other girl). anyways, we start dating, and it's going okay. then we decide to stop dating and just keep up a fuck friend relationship (i didn't want the relationship, but she was the one who suggested keeping fucking). so then she tells me a few weeks later "i think i'm falling in love with you." i left pretty quickly after that. made working with her at the restaurant a little awkward after that.

funny thing is, of all the girls i've ever dated/hooked up with, she's the one i wish i could try it again with. it was like dating my best friend, but i just wasn't ready to accept that. now she's married with child.

07-21-2003, 04:10 PM	#19 (permalink)
Mael Banned Location: The Hell I Created.	i've never really been dumped, i've always succeeded in pre-emptive dumping. but i often seem to be a bit of an immature asshole about how it comes to be. sophomore year of college, start dating this girl. go out a couple times, hook up a couple more times then we go out, and finally, i convince her to give me head. for her, this was a biggie. normally, she'd only go down on someone she really really really likes and was in a good relationship with, and would rather fuck before suck. well, anyways, 2 days before spring break, she goes down on me during a study break (we planned the hookup) and then i walked her home, went to dinner with friends, stayed up all night studying. didn't sleep at all. next day, run into her on the way to a test, say hi, quick kiss, take test, don't sleep that night either finishing a big paper and studying for another test. take test, go home, crash. i wake up at like 7pm when my dad comes to pick me up to go home for the week, she's already left for spring break and had left 2 messages on the machine, one not very nice. i broke up with her when we got back. i told her it was me, not her. i just wasn't really ready for a relationship (read: i still was in love with one of my best friends that nothing ever happened with and she was a bit of a plumper, and i thought i could do better attractive wise although she was cool as hell). so anyways, she hates me. we run into each other 6 months later, and within a couple weeks are hooking up again. christmas break comes along, and i don't go to her sisters party because i want to go to one that a girl i have a crush on is going to be at. we don't speak again for a long time. just fizzled. mutual i guess. had a great time at that party though. so we meet up again at some point, and are hanging out as friends (i said she was a cool girl. no joke). so one night, december 23rd to be exact, i come over to watch scary movie. we start fooling around and she's like, lets fuck. now, how could i turn her down? she's cute, great breasts, and could stand to maybe lose 10 pounds (which was the whole first time reason, errr... along with the other girl). anyways, we start dating, and it's going okay. then we decide to stop dating and just keep up a fuck friend relationship (i didn't want the relationship, but she was the one who suggested keeping fucking). so then she tells me a few weeks later "i think i'm falling in love with you." i left pretty quickly after that. made working with her at the restaurant a little awkward after that. funny thing is, of all the girls i've ever dated/hooked up with, she's the one i wish i could try it again with. it was like dating my best friend, but i just wasn't ready to accept that. now she's married with child.