well i think it really sucks when they think just because you didn't clearly define the relationship in the first place.. they don't even [clearly] break up with you.. just give you the cold shoulder for a little while until you take the hint.. it sucks because you don't want it to be true but it's there in the back of your mind. but they're still leading you on bcos they're not SAYING anything.... so then months later he tells you about his girlfriend and you're like "oh". when really, you've braced yourself for this moment for months, and even dreamed about him having a girlfriend. but it still stings like heck when reality catches up to you and you wonder why you weren't good enough..
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