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man, it's truly saddening to hear what we all seem to go through. We dump them, then feel bad; they dump us- then we can't let go.... there never seems to be the perfect way to do it.
My best friend for years and girlfriend for 2 years broke up with me awhile ago. Then, she started dating someone she works with 1 month after she broke it off with me. It took me a long time to pull myself out of the ditch after it felt like I had been ran over by a truck. Now the problem is, she has this boyfriend, and yet she calls me and tells me that she misses me and that we never hang out anymore.... hello???? She wrote me an email telling me that she just has a hard time splitting her time. I haven't called in her in I don't know how long- she seems to call me everyday. I don't want her to split her time- I don't want 20% or 80%- it's all or nothing. If she has this new boyfriend now, then she should be happy with him and not miss me. To me, it's plain and simple (which doesn't make it easier), but there needs to be a line.
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