condoms fail rates are due to improper use. they are actually pretty decent if you know what to do. when you put it on you're supposed to pinch the reservoir (the funny bulbous part at the tip) while rolling it on with the other hand. by pinching ahead of time, you don't put stress on the condom by trying to fix it right after you've already put it on. that could create microtears in it. when you're done, you're supposed to remove it immediately. to do this, you hold the condom at the base and then pull out.
one problem with condoms in the shower could be lack of lube since the water washes away most of the lubricants and such.
i wouldn't suggest doing it in the shower the first time if you are a total noob to sex.
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